When Mom was first diagnosed, I had no idea what I was getting myself into and thank God I got some help though CCAC and Carefor. At this time, a lovely lady Avan comes to the house to give Mom a shower a few nights per week (she is also incontinent). This gives me a little time to work on my business, go get a few groceries or spend some time with friends.
Mom: You know that lady that comes here to give me a shower?
Moi: Yes ... Avan (she still cannot remember her name and she has been coming for at least 1.5 years)
Mom: Does she give you a shower too
Moi: No, Mom, just you
Mom: Do we need to pay her?
Moi: No Mom
Mom: That is so nice of her, isn't it?
Moi: Indeed it is nice of her
Everything is so simple with her. It is either black or white. No gray.